I’ve definitely got it now and I don’t want to lose it….
I have been trying to live a new life this year and it has not been easy. The first couple of weeks were particularly tricky. Any change will always be met by resistance – your old habits are very dogged and refuse to lie down quietly!
On the other hand, you usually get by in the early days of any change because you have that first flush of genuine enthusiasm keeping you strong. The sheer novelty of your new life is intoxicating and helps to keep you going.
I suppose the real danger period is when you start to get complacent! I am six weeks in to this new way of living, and it has almost become easy.
I say ‘almost’ because I know from past experience that once I think something is easy and mundane, that I am likely to stop concentrating and fall back on the old me.
This time I am determined to keep going. I must stick to my plans as they are bringing me closer to my goals every day. I am feeling much better, I’ve lost over 20lbs in weight, I’m sleeping better and I’m concentrating and focusing on my work like a laser!
These successes certainly help me climb a positive spiral – success leads to more motivation which leads to more success, which leads to…and so on…
Talk Nicely To Myself
I now use more powerfully positive language with myself, and that really helps. In the past I would have said ‘I should try to lose weight’. Now I declare ‘I must continue to follow my system and then I will get closer to the strong, slim body I need’.
I’m sure you spotted the difference. The first sentence is so half-hearted and pathetically hopeful. Whereas the second is clear, positive and focused on what I want to gain, not what I want to lose.
This improved thinking is also helping to keep me on the right path, and that, too, leads to greater and greater levels of motivation.
I’ve Said It Out Loud Now
The other thing that has really kept me moving forwards is accountability. The fact that I know each week that I have to write a blog post on here and tell people what I have been up to really keeps me focused on what I must do.
There is no hiding place. I can’t say to myself ‘Tony, you’ve done well, so you deserve a break now and some beer, cheese and a day slobbing-out on the sofa.’ It’s not that you are going to judge me, it’s just that I have told people I will do this, and I so I feel I have to follow it through.
Over 300 different people have visited my blog in the first month and 3000 people like my Facebook page, so that is real to me! I have to stick to what I said because I have ‘said it out loud’.
Honestly, I think you can get the same feeling from telling close friends and family (assuming they are supportive and empathetic!) But I am glad so many people are interested in my journey.
Keep The Ball Rolling
Anyone who has pushed a large object knows that the first inch is the hardest. You need to put everything in to just get it to budge at all. But, once it starts going it is reasonably easy to keep the momentum going. And that’s how I feel now!
Here are three of the things I have found so far that have really helped me stay motivated and determined to meet my goals. I hope they help you too!
1. Read inspiring books
I have been reading Motivation Manifesto by Brendon Burchard. Hearing from someone else who has faced struggles and succeeded is an excellent way to keep you on your own path to success.
2. Keep your compelling vision at the front of your mind
No matter how hard things get, if you have a very clear and totally compelling vision of the life you want to live, then you will allow nothing to get in your way.
3. Relax and reflect
I still get an ‘itch’ to have a glass of wine or a cigarette, but I know that if I say ‘Only one wont hurt, surely?’ I will be back where I started in no time. So I ‘switch off’ and go for a walk or listen to some calming classical music. And it works!
Probably the single most motivating thing I have found is sheer bloody-mindedness. I want to show anyone in my life who has ever doubted me that I damn well can do it! This means that every time I succeed, I give myself a real pat on the back (over my shoulder! ) and tell myself that I am that little bit closer to showing everyone!
I hope this helps you to keep motivated on your own journey. Have a wonderful week and remember that even a single pebble can build to an avalanche. Get out there and build your own momentum to change your life!
Cheers for now,
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